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Friday, August 10, 2012
To everything turn
This summer, I have yet to can a thing. I've frozen a few odds and ends here and there in small batches, usually leftovers from a meal (ie. too much corn on the cob).
I haven't found the energy for it, and I'm not sure why.
This morning, Fooey and I looked at Soule Mama's blog together. She loved the photos of children feeding chickens, playing with pigs and sheep, and picking veggies in the garden. "The children have to do a lot of chores," she observed. I said they were homeschooled, and she said, "Well, of course! Because they have so many chores, they don't have time for school." Let me add that she said this with a very positive tone. Not "chores" as in drudgery, but "chores" as interesting activities.
I felt a pang for the seasonally lived life. "It's lot of work," I said. "It's their whole life."
I know that's why I read Soule Mama's blog: to live vicariously, just a tiny bit. To imagine pulling off muffins baked before kids come downstairs and weeding with baby riding on my back and preserving food and painting rooms pretty colours and renovating an old farmhouse and being a homesteader. When I was a young teen, I spent many happy hours imagining life as a homesteader, out in the middle of nowhere, building a self-sustaining life from scratch. I don't know why it appealed to me, but I know it was a fantasy that hasn't had much impact on my actual day-to-day life, even though remnants of the fantasy remain, fondly.
Maybe I'm too lazy.
Today, I am thinking with admiration about all those hard-working people who live seasonally. Right now, in Canada, if I were living truly seasonally, I would be canning like crazy. Now is the time! Grab the moment! Preserve summer. Instead, I'm lost in thought before a computer. I'm at a soccer field until dusk. I'm going for a run. I'm vacuuming dog hair.
But I have some angst over not canning. I feel like I should be. And I feel tired too, worn out, a bit, by the continuous nature of living, the daily demands, being unable to catch up or keep up. Laundry, meals, basic family hygiene, household demands. We attempted to get the kids doing regular chores earlier this summer, and we didn't stick to it. (We should try again, for their sake and for ours.)
Maybe that's what impresses me most about those people who are growing our food for us, and those people who are living off the land: they stick to it. Nature won't let them stop, and they don't. I'm sure they'd like to, sometimes. I'm sure weariness sets in.
I need something similar to attend to, a project larger than myself, more meaningful. (Or is this just August talking--a wistful month, I always find, during which I feel nostalgic for what's passing even though it's still right here all around me?)
I'm mother of four, writer, dreamer, planner, runner, photographer, taking time for a cup of coffee in front of this computer screen. My days are full, yet I keep asking: how can I fill them just a little bit more
-- with depth, with care, with pleasure.